I’ve struggled through the years with
identifying myself as a writer, not only to other people, but to
myself as well. Although I did tell friends and family about my
writing when I first started years and years ago, I ended up later
regretting the admission. Primarily because it took soooo long to
get published, and those well-meaning people had no clue when they’d
ask, “So, how’s the writing going?” how slowly this business
operates.
Back then, I was an at-home mom and it took me
a year to write a book. Add to that, the time it takes to hear back
from contests, agents and editors, and not a lot was happening from
one of my husband’s holiday office parties to the next.
I dreaded people asking me the question, “So,
what do you do?” Invariably, I’d go through some convoluted
explanation that went something like this. “Well, my undergraduate
degree is in accounting and I worked for eight years before deciding
to stay home with my kids, and now … well, now … I’m … writing.”
I know, major identity crisis, but it’s not
just me. It’s other people too. When you tell someone you’re a
writer, she automatically assumes that means you’re published and
your book is on the shelf.
Well, I’m here you to tell you that Webster’s
definition of “writer” mentions not one word about contracts, or
money, or covers. Same thing goes for the definition of the word
author. A writer is “one who writes.” And an author is a “writer
of a literary work (as in a book, any book).”
I just signed contracts for books five, six and
seven, and when people ask me what I do, I still have a moment’s
hesitation before I say the words, “I’m a writer.”
So start practicing it now. You will
get there in your own way and in your own time. In the mean time,
be proud of what you’ve accomplished. There are a lot of people who
say, “I could write a book.” There are very few who even attempt to
write one.
You did. And are still writing.
That’s because you … are a writer.
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